I just read this post on a my dear friend Cara's blog. Her care group leaders lost their five week old baby unexpectedly. Please go read her post and pray for them. Their baby was a few days older then our Eli.
While I know God is good in all things, loosing a child is SO hard. All of sudden not having to get up in the middle of the night to feed their little girl.....explaining the loss of their baby sister to a four year old and two year old is one of those things nobody teaches you how to do.
My heart is breaking for them.